Monday, November 10, 2014

Friends


Friends 

  All of us has many friends.
  But what exactly is FRIENDS?

Friends are like family that loves you, that cares about you, and that will never forget you even though you are far to each other. When you and your friend fight, you and your friend will still remember what you are in the past or how you are so close to your friend. Memories with your friends will not disappear even though you fight.

When friends loves each other, cares about each other are called FRIENDSHIP.
Friendship is a type of relationship between two people who care about each other. But such a dry definition doesn't do the concept of friendship justice. Consider these examples: A friend is the first person you want to call when you hear good news. A friend remembers that you don't like pickles on your sandwich. A friend will accompany you on the most boring of errands and make them seem fun.

In other words, friendship is wonderful, and much ink has been spilled in citing the virtues of having friends. That's not to say friendship is easy, though. It demands time and effort, and it requires that people put someone other than themselves first sometimes. But in exchange for that work, a friend can provide an immense amount of support and comfort in good times and in bad.

Many qualities are necessary for a good friendship, including honesty, trustworthiness, loyalty and unconditional acceptance. A friendship should make both people in the relationship happy; both people should have fun when they spend time together. To be perfectly frank, that's a tall order. Human beings can clash very easily, which is why it's hard for some people to maintain many friendships. It's possible that friendship can exist between two people at one stage of life, but life changes and personal growth may make friendship impossible at another stage. It can be hard to meet the people who would make the perfect friend.

The other key component to friendship is a real, face-to-face, relationship. This isn't to say that after you have established a friendship, you can't still be friends with them once they move away. However, in order to have a real friendship, you have to spend time with each other.

This is the reason why I always wanted to have many friends.

Before I end up my blog about friends, I have one quote that inspires me why friendship is the one of the best thing that you need to live in this world. I'll share this to you so that it can also inspire you the way it inspires me.

“Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything.”


~ Athaliah Jenine T. Bantug        





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